Anal sex: the first time

It is a lot of fun to discover how attractive and stimulating a sexual taboo can become: let's discover the world of anal sex together . We have been taught from a young age that everything that has to do with our rear is dirty and immoral, so we must always keep that part clean, even if only with the thought. Talking about anal sex seems even more or less rude and perverse depending on the socio-cultural context in which you are.

First time anal sex: get familiar with the anus!

Most of us started our sexual experience by playing with our clitoris , so why should anal sex be any different? Don't be picky: we are getting to know our bodies better and we are doing it in private! Start with a nice soak in the bathtub, in order to leave the part clean and relaxed, perhaps using essential oils to get a soft and smooth skin. Make sure you have intimate hygiene wipes, a water-based lubricant and your favorite sex toys for men in india on hand, and watch out for your nails to be neat and clean. Before you start exploring the anus, it's important to be a little aroused already, so play some sensual music .and give it up with your imagination.Caress the nipples, the clitoris, the vaginal lips, perhaps with the help of a dildo or a clitoral vibrator , then, pouring a little lubricant, begin to slowly and gently massage the entrance of the anus with a finger or, even better, with an anal plug,the sex toys for boys specially designed to start gently, taking care to relax the anal muscles before any sudden movement. By continuing to massage, you will get a natural opening and that pleasant feeling of relief that you feel when you get rid of your “burden” in the toilet; this could be the time when the penetration could be even deeper, but before you push yourself any further, make sure your finger or anal toy is well lubricated. It is usually recommended to use a silicone lubricantdue to its more fluid consistency which causes it to dry more slowly than the water-based one. No one will control you, so manage the penetration at your own pace, doing only what feels good for you. Once the finger has been completely inserted into the anus, you can explore the area and try to understand what it feels like: with plenty of lubricant, enter and extract your finger several times, until you get a feeling of greater opening. You will begin to experience a feeling of fullness , of invasion, as if you were completely possessed.

Try anal sex with your man for the first time

After exploring the area on your own, many of the most common fears and insecurities will have disappeared. With the right relaxation and good lubrication, your first anal experiences will be less painful than expected! The idea of ​​having anal sex with your partner might make you feel vulnerable, but it's perfectly normal because it's often a forbidden fantasy for both of you. Anal sex involves the dynamics of domination and submission , which can be considered very stimulating and a symptom of mutual trust and respect.Before venturing into the actual relationship, have your partner stimulate your anus with your tongue or fingers, because your body must get used to being touched in a different way than you have experienced, alone. Your partner must realize that the anus is not a gap in which to do everything, as unfortunately the porn shows, but it is a part of the body that needs time and attention to react to stimulation. Do not forget to use an adequate amount of lubricant, without which the friction could cause small internal wounds which, even if invisible, cause annoying and painful infections.Anal penetration for the first time will have to be a real team effort. The anus has two rows of muscles in the sphincter, one internal and one external. The external ones can be controlled at will, but the internal ones contract on their own as soon as the penis tries to enter. It is important for the man to gradually penetrate by removing the penis with each contraction, until the muscles are completely relaxed and more fluid in and out. Until the penetration takes place in a soft way, to maintain the stimulation, you can help yourself by kissing and playing with the other erogenous zones .Once the penis has passed through the sphincter, you will feel a clear difference: in the rectum the space is greater… now the fun begins!

PLEASE NOTE

Now that you have all the basics, here are some extra tips that will help you fully enjoy your anal sex adventures:

• - Forget about vegetables and various nature, but rely only on plugs, dildos and anal vibrators , equipped with a wider support base in order to prevent the suppository effect on the part of the anus;
• - The watchword is: hygiene hygiene hygiene. Remember that even the smallest trace of stool can cause unpleasant infections around and inside the vagina. Thoroughly clean your private parts and after use sanitize the anal toys with a specific toycleaner;
• - Vagina and anus are not interchangeable: do not switch from one to the other (but above all from the other to one) if you do not want to transfer all the bacteria present in the anus into the vagina;
• - If you are nervous about having anal sex with your man, make sure you position yourself in such a way that you are in control of the depth of penetration.

Now that you are ready try double penetration for an even more sublime sensation, with the extra stimulation of the G-spot through the G-Spot vibrators !